Saturday, March 14, 2020

Emotions

WHAT YOUR  CHOICE ?

How well can you describe your emotions or what do you mean by emotions ?
Without saying anything we can figure it out easily in the image below,which describes everything within a single picture.

In one line i can say: A strong feeling according to the situation which best describes your reaction

An emotion is a strong feeling which can not be sustained for a long time that is it only has a short time period to show up on your face and after some time it will fade away.
It is a certain period of time where your mind and heart acts the same
A person can not act the same the whole day.No one can say that it(emotions) does not affect them in their day to day lives.
Each one of us do react but don't keep that situation in mind for long hours as the mind does not allow you to think about just only thing.
We deal with a lot of things everyday,we come across a lot of people,we meet a lot ones,we get to know different persons,

You may find some common things in several ones but one thing which will be different or which makes anyone different from the other is the emotions he/she has because everything depends on this factor only that how the person infront of you gonna react or act.  


If i give you a simple example from our day to day life:
A class can not have a group of students with the same characteristics

IS IT RIGHT OR WRONGE????

Definitely yes,we have to agree with this statement that they can't be the same like others.
It's the characteristics which makes a difference and this characteristics depends on the current situation mood of that particular person which includes EMOTIONS in it.


Emotions have some elements just like subjective experience,physiological response,behaviour response.

A person's state of mind can not be controlled by anyone.

Emotions do have a time period of few seconds we can say

If you look into the messages or texts we do in everyday life it has a new era of EMOJIS
where we pretend to be under that state of mind for a while which best describes our mood,thereafter we shift to another mood section which has a another emoji.


                      Mood swings are also the result of emotions:


BASIC 6 TYPES(EMOTIONS):-

                               Happiness         Sadness     Fear     Disgust     Anger     Surprise
IT'S A MIXED FEELING THAT CAN NOT BE CONTROLLED MUCH, AS MIND WILL DO THE SAME FROM INSIDE EVEN IF YOU TRY NOT TO SHOW THAT OFF.
WE CAN JUST ADMIT THE THINGS HOW THEY ARE AROUND US AND TRY TO ADJUST AS PER THEY ARE WITHOUT GIVING MUCH REACTION .

STILL AS PER NEWTON'S 3RD LAW, 

WHEN THERE IS ACTION THERE IS REACTION 
SO IT CAN NOT BE BURIED MUCH EVEN IF YOU TRY TO DO
SOMEHOW WE END UP SPEAKING UP OR REACTING TO THAT SITUATION,
AS MIND AND HEART ACTS THE SAME SO IT SEEMS MORE ACCURATE AND RIGHT TO ACT SO !!


Mind + Brain = Flawless Emotions

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xNY0AAUtH3g

(A video to let you know about more on emotions and how it is related)
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xoxo

Thursday, March 12, 2020

Life means Problems

Can any one say with a gurantee that he/she had never gone through or faced any problems in life,No one is there on earth who can say this,well you also can say it as a universal truth.

Yes problems arises in each and everyone's life.


No one can run away from it,we all have to admit it as in our day to day life all of us come across a lot lot of problems starting from a minor one to the top most.



Starting your day from the bed to coming back to bed at night,we go through little type of problems everyday which we don't give importance because it's our mindset that its just a part of the day.
So can't we take the bigger problems in life with calmness by making our mind ready for it.

Well,everything depends on each one's nature,mindset,attitude towards the problem.


Taking an Example to let you understand how life is related to problems:-

A road is incomplete unless and until it has speed breakers in it.
What is the work of a speed breaker - It just slow down the vehicle for a while in between the ride,after a slowdown for a while speeding up is the choice of the driver if he/she wants to gear up or not.


Same thing happens in the life also problems are just the speed breakers that you have to admit that it gonna come in between the process of life anytime anywhere for a short time period which will only disturbe your daily routine for a while unless it is fixed,that is you again try to speed up and catch that daily life process that you used to follow as your routine.

We will come across a lot of people who takes their problems in life to various levels.
Some give up on everything,some loose hopes,some loose confidence,some tries again but with lesser efforts,some leave the positive state of mind.

Therefore,its the attitude and mindset of people how they react to things happening in their lifes.
Acting smartly and acting foolish are the two different stages which will turn your life into a mess or a profitable product depending on what that particular person choose.
  
PROBLEM IS THE LOCK IN THE LIFE AND YOUR MINDSET IS THE KEY TO YOUR PROBLEMS LOCK
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Positivity is okay but relating it to the scientific values will always work in day to day life process.
No one can not run away from the reality
Everyone has to set up the mind to be ready to tackle the upcoming problems in life as long as they exist on earth.

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TRANSLATION IN HINDI:-



क्या कोई भी व्यक्ति गुरुतत्त्व के साथ यह कह सकता है कि वह जीवन में कभी किसी समस्या से नहीं गुजरा है या उसका सामना नहीं किया है, पृथ्वी पर ऐसा कोई नहीं है जो यह कह सके, वैसे आप इसे एक सार्वभौमिक सत्य भी कह सकते हैं।

हां, प्रत्येक और सभी के जीवन में समस्याएं आती हैं।

कोई भी इससे दूर नहीं भाग सकता है, हम सभी को इसे अपने दिन के रूप में स्वीकार करना होगा जैसे कि दिन भर के जीवन में हम सभी को बहुत सारी समस्याएं आती हैं जो एक मामूली से शुरू होकर सबसे ऊपर आती हैं।

अपने दिन की शुरुआत बिस्तर से रात में बिस्तर पर आने के बाद, हम हर रोज छोटी-छोटी समस्याओं से गुजरते हैं, जिन्हें हम महत्व नहीं देते क्योंकि यह हमारी मानसिकता है कि यह दिन का एक हिस्सा है।


तो क्या हम अपने मन को इसके लिए तैयार करके शांति के साथ जीवन में बड़ी समस्याओं को नहीं उठा सकते हैं।



खैर, सब कुछ एक-दूसरे की प्रकृति, मानसिकता, समस्या के प्रति दृष्टिकोण पर निर्भर करता है।
एक उदाहरण लेते हुए आपको बताते हैं कि जीवन समस्याओं से कैसे संबंधित है: - एक सड़क तब तक अधूरी है जब तक उसमें स्पीड ब्रेकर न हों। स्पीड ब्रेकर का काम क्या है - यह सिर्फ सवारी के बीच में थोड़ी देर के लिए वाहन को धीमा कर देता है, थोड़ी देर के लिए धीमे होने के बाद तेजी से वाहन चालक की पसंद है कि वह गियर करना चाहता है या नहीं।
जीवन में एक ही बात होती है, समस्याएं भी बस स्पीड ब्रेकर हैं जिन्हें आपको स्वीकार करना होगा कि यह जीवन की प्रक्रिया के बीच कभी भी और कहीं भी थोड़े समय के लिए आने वाली है जो केवल आपकी दैनिक दिनचर्या को थोड़ी देर के लिए परेशान करेगा जब तक कि यह तय न हो जाए, क्या आप फिर से उस दैनिक जीवन प्रक्रिया को गति देने और पकड़ने की कोशिश करते हैं जिसे आप अपनी दिनचर्या के रूप में अपनाते थे। हम ऐसे बहुत से लोगों के सामने आएंगे जो जीवन में अपनी समस्याओं को विभिन्न स्तरों पर ले जाते हैं। कुछ सब कुछ छोड़ देते हैं, कुछ ढीली आशाएं, कुछ ढीले आत्मविश्वास, कुछ फिर से कोशिश करते हैं लेकिन कम प्रयासों के साथ, कुछ मन की सकारात्मक स्थिति को छोड़ देते हैं।

इसलिए, इसका रवैया और लोगों की मानसिकता कि वे अपने जीवन में होने वाली चीजों पर कैसे प्रतिक्रिया देते हैं। चालाकी से काम करना और मूर्खतापूर्ण कार्य करना दो अलग-अलग अवस्थाएँ हैं जो आपके जीवन को एक गड़बड़ या लाभदायक उत्पाद के रूप में बदल देती हैं जो उस व्यक्ति विशेष के आधार पर चुनती हैं।
समस्या जीवन में ताला है और आपका दिमाग आपके प्रचार ताला की कुंजी है ................................ सकारात्मकता ठीक है लेकिन इसे वैज्ञानिक मूल्यों से संबंधित करना हमेशा दिन-प्रतिदिन की जीवन प्रक्रिया में काम करेगा। कोई भी वास्तविकता से भाग नहीं सकता है सभी को पृथ्वी पर विद्यमान होने तक जीवन में आने वाली समस्याओं से निपटने के लिए तैयार रहने के लिए मन को स्थापित करना होगा।


To be continued for another phase of reality in life in my blog,.......

What is life as per your view?

Before entering into reality of life,a question arises what is life.Does it mean living a good life with everything you want.Well this is the fantasy that everyone wants to achieve.But i don't think that you will be happier for the rest of your life just sitting in a million cost bed and having the things infront of you that you have dreamed off.Do you think so that you will be okay with this lifestyle for the rest of your life. life
 Well out of all there will be many who will say yes to this life,also who does not like this type of living but unfortunately this is the lifestyle which we all think about,does it mean life in any sense or can we say we are living a life.
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Now talking about life what does it mean in real relating to our day to day life.

LIFE is learning a lesson,inspiring others or being inspired,having faith on what we are doing in our lives and lastly Everyone in life that have beliefs or do believe in something.
Understand the real meaning of life may not be defined well by anyone of us because it is a day to day live process that happens with each and every one of us in a different way.Everyone has a unique story in his\her life.From coming into this world to leaving the world,everyone keeps on learning this lesson as long as they are in this world.Life is a combination of ups-dows-happiness-sadness-loss-gains-love-hate-family-friends-job-problems-solutions-nature-god-us etc.
Life is not living a fantasy but trying to survive in the world carring all this things along with us always,if you loose any one of it then it will be your lose.
It is a vast topic to talk and a lot more to understand by relating to our real life situations.It can not be completed within a paragraph but it can change the way you want to see your life.


continued for the next time....see you soon in another blog of life in reality